everything exists within

Today I had some reflexive surface level thoughts about why it sometimes bothers me that other people.. like my family, most of my peers and friends don’t really see me or understand me. And so this is a great opportunity to dive into projection, validation, and self worth!

Something I have learned is you have to be ok with most people .. or even everyone not understanding you. Realize that no one will ever know you like you know yourself. Everyone else is only able to see you, or perceive you through the lens of their own bias and personal experience. Like literally no one else can understand you!! and that’s okay. No one will know you like yourself, no one will understand you or the reasons why something is significant or not to you but you. But more than that, anything you perceive, or ‘gain’ from someone else is merely a reflection of your inner state… of your existing beliefs, the beliefs you yourself have cultivated and supported to your sub and super conscious. This might sound like a lot to digest if you are heavily fixated on the outer world as a means to validate your inner world instead of the other way around, but this truth is freedom… it’s liberty and sovereignty.

You were there with yourself as you experienced hardship and you yourself were the one who worked through it. Once you understand that no one will ever truly see the world or life as you experience it, it becomes much easier to remove value on other peoples opinions or perspectives. Your existence and who you are as a person is not validated through other people! And actually, whether you like it or not, whether you choose to admit it or not, everyone and everything you see around you is a reflection of your inner state: your beliefs, your biases, your personal moral compass. Validation is something understood from within. It is something you yourself live and walk with. And not just validation, but understand that no one can ever ‘give u’ anything. Everything comes from within. Someone may open your mind to new insight, provide you with more knowledge or information… but is it anyone other the you who learns this? Is it anyone but you who digests it? Who puts information you learned yourself into practice?? Think about it.. everything ever, learned ever ‘gained’ has come from within. Including validation. You may be seeking validation out from others, but any beliefs in validation are only reflections of validation you already align with internally. And this exists everywhere and is reciprocated in all places!! Anything, anything any beauty or ‘pain’ you perceive in the external is merely a reflection of your existing inner state. How powerful is this?! To realize this is to realize that your inner state… is entirely yours to create, your consciousness is the operant power in this existence. Your subconscious is yours to program however you see fit… be it the way you experience validation, fear, perceived hardship… literally everything.

For example, think about something you perceive as ‘difficult’… why do you think this is difficult, because someone told you it was? What does difficult even mean to you? What is it really?? Ask yourself “is this ‘difficult’ because someone told me it was? because society subliminally messaged to me that it was? If no one had told me about what I was ‘supposed to think’ about this what would I think?” Maybe what you think is difficult isn’t. Everything is whatever you say it is.

Your consciousness informs how you see everything, and it’s yours to command. Engage with your one true gift in this life: mental sovereignty!!! If you can learn to understand, question, uproot or ‘plant’ anything subconsciously… the physical world is literally yours. If you are disconnected from what you truly see, how you truly feel, what you truly want.. spend time alone… with no one to subliminally program your subconscious but yourself, you will quickly learn how your really feel about something and what forces (people, places, habits) are enforcing subliminal messaging that you do not actually agree with or want to support.

Your mind and reciprocally the outer world are your garden to uproot or plant anything you desire.